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By the way, here's an interesting tip I read years ago in "Jane" magazine of all places. They had oral sex tips from a transsexual prostitute. S/he said that all men like deep throating, but often people find that difficult to do. But the REAL reason men like that is that they like the feeling of having the sensitive head of the penis hit something back there. So, she suggested that if women had trouble deep-throating that they position themselves so that the head of the penis would hit towards the back of the roof of their mouth, and the effect would be just as good, and the man none the wiser. I tested it out, and in my experiments, the advice seemed to work--the men liked it very much, and didn't seem to see any difference. But I'll let you men say for sure.

There are several...

First...eye contact...telling your guy that you want him to watch and then looking up at him while you worshipping his organ is extremely exciting.

Second, Less important to me is activity along the entire length of the cock...now that feels good but the real payoff for me is the head. Use your hands on the shaft and use your mouth on the head. In fact, use your mouth and your hand in unison.

Finally, a vibrating tongue on the underside of the head (the frenulum is the technical term) is the awesome. I suspect that it might feel just as good as a vibrating tongue working on a clitorus. I don't know for sure because I don't have a clit, but I do know that tongue action on the underside of the head is extremely pleasurable.

A very important warning...avoid serious contact with your teeth...gently nibbles maybe nice, but if in the course of vigorous exertions one engages the canine or another sharp edged tooth, all hope is lost.

If you have any additional questions...just ask.

Yeah, all the previously mentioned advice is pretty decent. But as you've probably figured out, it's not that difficult of a procedure, and even if you don't follow technique the job will get done to our satisfaction.

That said, here's my thoughts on the matter:

1) Eye contact is good; smiling is better. Feed the delusion that you're enjoying it as much as we are. Hey, if you're granting us the favor of a blowjob, why not go the extra yard?

2) Bondage/Blindfolding. Not only is it "mmmm", but I know I have the problem that if a girl just has her head in my lap, I'm a touch parinoid that I'm not doing anything for her and not holding up my end of the bargan. If I'm restrained from trying to stroke your hair or give you a backrub, I'll stay out of your way and we can both concentrate.

3) Patience. It's not a race, and we both know that if you really wanted to, the whole thing could be done in about 90 seconds. But if you take your time, start and stop and tease and torment, then it'll be all the more sweeter.

4) Heavy on the torment. Stop at that point where we're about to burst and then start licking our thighs instead. If you do it just right, we'll make death threats, profess our undying love, or maybe even cry. We may insist at the time this is a bad thing, but believe me, when it's over we won't forget it and won't have traded it for anything in the world. (Of course, should we involuntarily grab you tight by the back of the head you'll understand what the rope is for.)

--Dante

Thanks, Sidd. Are you a actually a really-truly fluffer? Or is that just your internet persona?

I'm curious what you mean by "vibrating toungue." Are you suggesting just moving it very fast (like flicking it around), or actually making it vibrate, by humming or some other method?

Dante: excellent advice. There's nothing like torment to raise the bar. Hopefully, you're getting some lovely torment wherever you are tonight. (And by the way, "I'll stay out of your way and we can both concentrate" made me laugh right out loud. Well done.)

And there must be others with an opinion. Please keep 'em coming, gentlemen.

Great comments all. For me, the most important sex organ is between my ears. Thats why eye contact is so important. Even more important is for the woman to truly LOVE what she is doing. Any sense of duty or obligation will be perceived and is an instant turn off. A true desire to please can make up for less than perfect technique. I really enjoy some dirty talk too. In the same way I love to tell a woman how good she tastes when I pleasure her I love to hear how much my partner loves playing with my cock. Hope this helps...

The three most important factors for me are suction, suction, and - SUCTION! Did I mention that I like suction? Doesn't matter if it's fast or slow, deep or shallow, as long as there's that serious vacuum!

Joe

Oh dear, great comments, but...now how is she going to accomplish both serious suction AND dirty talk at the same time? ;-)

You men are certainly hard to please (ahem, yes, bad pun)!

Any more advice from the e-waves? Keep on sharing...

The most important thing is the feeling that the woman giving the blowjob is getting off on it. This doesn't have to involve lots of moaning and whimpering, though the best blowjobs I've had did include some noises seeming to indicate that two people, not just one, were getting plenty of pleasure out of the whole deal. That's a huge turn-on. And, of course, swallowing. I gather not every guy really cares, but I can't really understand that; when somebody swallows and you get the feeling that it's because she got off on it, it's an incredibly exciting thing.

I'm sure every guy has his own preferences, but the above suggestions are all good. One thing I haven't seen mentioned is LUBRICATION. Lots of saliva as there's nothing worse than a dry hummer. You don't have to flood the bed, but wetness is important to eliminate painful friction, plus it's sexy. Some saliva and pleasing moans and you're on the right track!

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The key thing I'm picking up here is that "good" blowjob techniques are personal. Some of the tips here are things I love, others I don't care at all about (such as concentrating on the head -- doesn't do it for me, in fact I feel exactly the opposite).

Giving a good blow-job is accomplished the same way as giving any other good sexual act: learning what your partner likes the best.

Me personally? I like the combination of hand and mouth. And it's 5 times better when the woman likes what she's doing.

Similar to points already raised.

But I'll repeat them anwyay.

(1) Eye contact. Be very dirty with that look. A woman just looking down and getting on with it intently,may feel good. But psychologically it's boring beyond belief for the man.

(2) Swallow. Or,don't backoff when I cum. For me,this is crucial. If there is one thing to completely destroy the whole thing, it's a woman flinching when I'm cumming, or showing that they don't enjoy swallowing. If a women screws her face up to protect her face, then what kind of message is that giving me? A woman who held it in her mouth and then spat it out, what message does that give me? Swallowing really shows you care and recieve. I once had a Girlfriend who would not swallow, and insisted on Condoms during regular Sex. That showed me everything I needed to know about our relationship as a whole. She didn't really want to recieve "me". Cumming inside your partner is so fulfilling for a guy. He feels you accept him and join with him. Receiving that gift, is crucial. It was a Berlin Wall between us.

(3) Don't just hope to get it over and done with. Some woman don't hide this rush, and it ruins the moment. We're prepared to be there a long time enjoying the BJ. Women may not be. But don't make that apparent.

anon1, anon2, chris, and alexander: thanks for sharing your tips.

I think both of us, men and women alike, like to know the other person's into it. Though personally, I don't care if the guy is looking up at me while he's giving me oral. I'm too overwhelmed, throwing my head back in pleasure to even notice...

Not sure about the non-condom, always swallow thing. I can understand why it is ultimate, and in a perfect world, I'm sure everyone would want to do both. But with all the scary STDs out there to consider, unless it's a monogamous relationship, I prefer to believe any partner choosing to use a condom/dental dam means they are concerned with protection, not rejection. And there's a lot of relief in knowing your partner wants to keep both of you safe and healthy.

Now, if it's a committed relationship, well, swallow away and condoms be damned!

one of the most rewarding experiences is recieving head without asking for it. Having a woman go for you rather than just making suggestions or directly "begging" is a sign of her willingness. Swallowing is very appreciated, but men have to carry some responsibility for it. If you taste off, show that your willing to work on your diet.
If your lips or jaw are getting sore, don't hesitate to work with your tongue for a bit.

Here ya go, a couple more tips about deep throating:

When you’re comfortable with deep throating, and your body has gotten used to relaxing its gag reflex, there are a few advanced techniques you can try that’ll get him hotter than an exhaust pipe after a three day road trip.

1) Contract your throat muscles while he’s inside you, massaging the head of his dick simultaneously.

2) While his dick is down there, swallow a few times- the sensation will make him reel.

3) Then, practice taking the head of his cock in and out of your throat- not bringing it right out of your mouth, of course, but just enough so that it’s penetrating and exiting the point of no return (where your gag reflex used to kick in.) He’ll go nuts!

Good work, you’re on your way.

The key things to remember when deep throating your man are: that practice makes perfect- no one did this flawlessly the first, second or even third time they tried- and that relaxing makes it much more comfortable for you.

Take deep breaths, go slowly, and visualize yourself feeling calm and centred as you perform the act. Some cocks will be too big to deep throat entirely, and others will be swallow-able in one gulp. Gauge your limits, be reasonable, and don’t push yourself too hard at first. You’re sure to improve quickly, and your man’s sure to love it!

Right from my article archive at www.bjtutorial.com

Remember your hands (and fingers). a firm circle grasp at the base is great, hands tickling balls and that wonderful taint area separates the good from the great. and while you're taking a break from full-out sucking, play it like a flute with your fingers, the tap-tap-tapping of your digits will be well-received. and my favorite moment ever was being told post-orgasm, "i've wanted to do that for the longest time." it sent me to the moon.

My boyfriend loves it when i keep on deethroating and playing with the head of his penis right after he cums. and when i lick all the cum off his penis

Well... how do we put this I think it is totaly hot when a girl rolls the skin off my penis and start to lick the head in a cirular motion first, thank slowly sucking the head while her toung is still moving in a cirular motion. Than about every 9 circular motions she give me 9 strokes all this while playing with my balls, oh... and I think it is soooo totaly hot if she completes me by deepthroating me.

Well, I'm a girl... but I've gotten feedback from guys, and talked with guys I haven't had sexual experiences with, and here's a few things I've learned. Some of these are mentioned above, but I added a few things.

1. Like biting, even if you don't bite, if you let a vampire tooth scrap to roughly on it, it'll hurt for him.

2. The massaging the balls thing is a turn on, but be careful with them, don't squeeze them tightly.

3. Sucking, playing, licking, after he gets off can turn "good" head into "great". The first time I tried this with my boyfriend, it sent chills down his spine it was so good.

4. Don't go up and down all the time. A little bit of twisting and turning your head makes it better.

5. I can't deep-throat, and the advice above about using the roof of your mouth is true. Also, if you use the roof of your mouth and go back and forth, the ridges on it makes a good sensation.

Hope this helps!

your tips are very useful.. i want to do the "eye contact" thing while i'm busy giving him head but my bf gets a hard-on when he fingers me at the same time..

im a girl but my boyfriend loves when i make quick continuous circles just under the head with my finger and tons of spit at the same time that i suck his balls. he also likes when i suck really hard on the head and play with the tip with my tongue at the same time

Great book:
Blow Him Away -- How To Give Mind-Blowing Oral Sex
by Marcy Michaels

It has EXERCISES! for your lips, tongue, and throat. (from a speach therapist, no less)
It has step-by-step instructions for the total novice. Not that you'd do the same thing every time, but it's good for confidence just to have a roadmap to fall back on.
It has hints for moves to locate his hot spots, and how to tease and please them depending on where they are.

Can you tell I enjoyed this book? My partner reads dirty stories to ramp up his libido on a slow day. I read this!

Favorite take-away: You've got muscles in your lips and tongue. If I think specifically about using them, I get more creative and he gets more sensations.

Personal discovery: gag reflex takes a long time to subside. like Years! I resorted to practicing on a dildo, the rubbery kind. It's easier to learn to relax when there's not pressure to perform. Now I know how guys must feel about that!

Oh, and Micheals wrote a companion book too for pleasing women.

For me, there are several things I have read and tried.

1) of course, eye-contact is good.
2) this may seem difficult, but answer any questions he has or try talking dirty to him while he is still in your mouth. He may or may not be able to understand you, but your tongue will do things you didn't think it could do.
3) while bobbing up and down, twist your head around his shaft in a corkscrew motion. It's a little different, and you have to be EXTRA careful with your teeth, but if done right, it really adds a little something to the experience.
4) try moaning or humming while he is in your mouth. The vibration is very nice.
5) My gal and I tried this once, and it was CRAZY. i challenged her to make me cum only using her tongue. She wasn't even allowed to wrap her lips around me, just licking. I could get all the way to the point of almost cumming, but it took me FOREVER to go all the way over the edge. It saves you girls the frustration of guessing when to "stop before the point of no return".
6) make it a game. Like in the above step, challenge each other, bet each other. If I make her orgasm in under three minutes, I get two blowjobs whenever I want them, and vice versa. This is a really good way not only to make it more exciting, but to also encourage experimentation.

I really do want to please my husband with a great blow job and I know he loves them...and I love him. Every time I do it, it's painful due to TMJ. I have even gone to the lengths of talking with my dentist about ways to cure or help TMJ, but no one seems to know the answer. My mouth actually cracks everytime I open it to give a blow job...not a barely noticeable sound, but a loud crack. Added to it, my husband is 6' 7" and is very proportionate if you know what I mean. I've tried researching this on the internet to no avail. Does anyone have any other ideas or sites/books for help?

RE: wanna know
you dont have to wrench open your jaw to give him a great blowjob. think of how you eat food and how wide you need to open your mouth for that without cracking. a lot can be done with your tongue and hand. his perineum and testicles are sensitive too and that only takes the use of your hand. the most sensitive bit is the head of his penis so try licking and sucking as if it were a lollipop. use lots of saliva or a flavoured lube and slide your hand up and down his shaft. we all come up against obstacles but its about using what you have to the full extent....

Whoa, Alexander. Just because a girl doesn't want to swallow doesn't mean she doesn't want you. Think to yourself, do YOU want to taste your jizz? It doesn't taste that good. So please, don't judge how much a girl wants YOU just by how much she wants to taste your cum.

The first thing to consider when your about to embark on a Blowjob is the position that you are in. Whatever it may be, you and your man must be comfortable. Some Blowjobs can last longer than others. And you dont want to keep changing positions and moving. If your serious about learning how to give a blowjob, I recommend you read..

Have you ever heard of practice makes perfect? Giving a blowjob isnt
going be the easiest thing you've ever done... You should at least be prepared for it. Find an object that is similar in shape to a penis. Now do to that object as you would to a penis. You will realize how far your mouth will have to stretch and exactly how many muscles you will actually be using. If your serious about learning how to give a blowjob, I recommend you read..

Are you unsure about what your doing? Well you at least need to pretend that you know what your doing. If he thinks your in control, he doesn't have to worry about you "raking" him or what your going to do next.
If your serious about learning how to give a blowjob, I recommend you read..

There are many different ways to bring your man to climax. The important thing is that you dont just do one thing. The last thing you want is for him to loose his erection while its in your mouth. That is why it is important to mix it up a bit. Switch from your mouth, to your tongue, to your hand.
If your serious about learning how to give a blowjob, I recommend you read..

All inspired by www.pornstartips.com

ok. my fiance' loves it when i flicker my tongue on the base of his shaft, and under his balls.i suck on him for at least 2 mins then i move my naked body (rubbing it on his stomach). stopping where my breasts meet his penis. and i rub them on him, and then do a tongue dance in his mouth...

it always gets him hard... and thats just starting!

My fiance is a Marine, so we go months at a time without seeing one another.

About a week before he's due to come home I start sending him really dirty text messages while I know he's working. Something like "God, I'm so wet right now. I want your cock down my throat and you cumming on my face baby" (So he pops a boner and isn't able to do anything about it.)

And for a few days prior I forbid him to masturbate at all (I'm not allowed either) After we get our "Hey honey, I've missed you's! out of the way, we don't leave the bedroom for 3 days.

He really enjoys it when I occasionally raise my head off his penis, with saliva trailing down between his head and my mouth.

When I feel he's about to cum (which happens quickly after not having female contact for months) I stop what ever I'm doing and kiss his inner thighs or lick his taint.

From my experence the most important thing with virtually ANY guy, is to really enjoy it. Even if I'm not in the mood ( I usually am) I know that whatever torture I inflict on him, he's going to reciprocate, which gets me into the mood regardless.

He also LOVES it when he's been home for a couple days, we're sleeping nude together, and he wakes up with his cock in my mouth. Surprise midnight head is his favorite.

we'll
this is good advice.(=
but the one thing is...i dont want to make eye contact,
because i dont like him watching me.
so i dont really look at him when i do it
but sometimes for like 2 seconds i will.
but how can i get over the not likeing him watching me???

thanks,
mandf

howtogivealtimatehead: i have been with my husband for 10 years now. and i absolutly love to give head!! its a real turn on for me and nothing gets me wetter than sucking on hubbys cock!!! I have picked up a few techniques hopefully this will help.

as previously stated:
eye contact is good
hubby likes it when i begin with gentley pulling the skin on his penis with my teeth, not hard , gently bently is the rule LOL
start licking the shaft to make it good and wet.
also dont forget his testies!!! you can suck them into your mouth, lick them, taste them, enjoy them!!!
try teasing him..place the head of his penis just on your lips, roll it around your wet lips a few times then allow him to enter your mouth about an inch and then take it back out...repeat!
take him in further i would say half way...bob up and down and do twisting motions with your mouth and tounge. allow syliva to slide down his shaft.
It took me a long time but i have now mastered how to deep throat him. while deep throating contract your muscles in your throat to tighten around his penis...try humming a tune...the vibrations will send him over the edge
Dont forget to stroke his testies and perinium...spot between his testies and anus...
When you know he's about to cum..us woman can tell because the penis will begin to twitch uncontrollably...tell him you want him to cum in your mouth...or down your throat...this will make a good cock sucking...a fantastic cock sucking!!
hope this helps

if you don't want a gag reflex, try rubbing your temples for about 20 seconds or get your guy to do this, it takes your gag-reflex away. =)

HIYA!!!!
ive js started seein a guy n i love givin him a blowjob but i ave neva in ma life deepthroated i love the idea of gettin it to hit the back of ur throat but i cnt do it well i ave once or twice but its hard!!!!
any tips????

I've had great fun reading this as I'm pleased to find out that I preform many of the tips given!

As a girl, the most important thing I've discoverd when giving oral is, like already mentioned many times is to show how much you enjoy pleasing him! If you don't want too or don't enjoy pleasing him then maybe you should be questioning your relationship!

My best tips?
1)Take your time, show him that your turned on by every inch of his body. kiss him, lick him, nibble, suck and massage him(with all of your body! be imaginative!) untill he is gagging for you to take his cock in your mouth!

2)Tease him! run your tongue up his inner thigh, kissing and gently nibbling as you go until you reach his shaft. Slowly run your tongue/lips up his shaft untill you reach his head. Go to put his head in your mouth, stop, flash a sexy glance to check he's watching. If he's not watching then hesitate with your lips very gently wrapped around his head until he looks at you. Then stop and move onto another part of his body. Surprise him and do the unexpected so that he is always excited to find out what you'll do next. Blind folding him is always good fun as he never knows which part of your body you'll use next. i.e tongue, breasts, lips, hands, stomach, teeth etc...

3) screw him...with your hands! create a loop(0) shape using your index finger and your thumb. With both hands gently rap this shape round his cock and gently screw up and down as if trying to open a bottle of juice. while doing this flick your tongue againt his perenium or swirl your tongue round his head.

4)keep up a good rythem.

5)lots of saliva make a good blow job great! plus it makes it easier.

6)Swallow and enjoy it as if it's your reward! If you cant bare the tough of swallowing then at least rub it over you breats and show how much you love the fact you made him come!

7)most importantly, smile and have fun. Thats what it all about!

I hope Ive helped a little!

My boyfriend always brings up this one time we were laying down on the bed during head. I was on my stomach and I started kicking my legs back and forth. He loooveeed when I did that because it looked like I was having such a fun time with it! And it was so easy to add in there ;)

I'm a 25 year old woman, and these are things that my husband (28) and I like. NOTE: This is what MY man likes, I'm definitely not suggesting that ALL men will like some or all of these things (especially #2!). You'll have to figure out, directly or indirectly, what's ok with your man and what's not!

1. Taking a short break to kiss his mouth or tongue kissing right after you swallow his cum is very HOT! Some guys might be really grossed out by this. But the ones who do like it LOVE it.

2. Insert a well lubed finger about 2 or 3 inches into his anus when he's just about to come (prostate stimulation - he loves it! Some men may not like that at all though, be careful and don't assume! My husband was embarrassed to tell me he liked it and wanted me to do it to him.) A good way to find out if he may be interested is to gently press on his perineum with a finger or two. A man who wants NOTHING to do with anal play will not let you near it.

3. He likes it when I spit on his penis to lube it up (he even likes to hear the sound of me spitting on it). Not a loogie! Just spit. This one doesn't do anything for me personally, but I always make it seem like it does.

4. Yes, eye contact is great. But not staring. That's just creepy.

5. He loves it when I swallow! Sometimes to change things up he likes to cum on different parts of my body: face, breasts, buttocks, etc. He goes crazy if I swipe a little bit with my finger and lick it off while I look him in the eye. He said he thinks about that for days after and can't get the image out of his head, which is something that makes me feel great to hear!

6. He LOVES it when we're going to sleep at night and I tell him "Lie back, don't lift a finger...I'm going to make you crazy." Then I give him a great, enthusiastic bj, and we fall sleep together nude. The point with this one is that sometimes they like to be able to receive without anything being expected in return. Yes, I'm horny too, but he loves and APPRECIATES this so much that he can't wait to make me happy and he never ASKS me for a "free" one...because he knows that I will give it to him. If you give him a little free action sometimes (with it being your idea, not his), it will actually keep him from becoming a selfish lover. And that, ladies, will keep your man loyal for life.

I think all woman would agree that we want to top any blow job our man has had from anyone else. a word to the men reading this...even if we ask do NOT tell us some one else gave a better bj...but DO tell us if we've given u the best bj ever, even if we don't ask. guys can be shy about telling u what they want because they don't want to seem demanding or maybe they are embarrassed of something they enjoy. to get him to communicate try saying "it turns me on so much when I know u love what I'm doing to u..tell me how to make it better". or try several techniques and ask do you like it better when I do this or this? don't wait for him to ask for a bj...just take charge and go down on him. the first time I went down on my boyfriend when he came in my mouth I swallowed and proudly opened my mouth to show him I had and smiled at him. I will never forget the look on his face....he loved it so much.
guys like it real wet but if u don't want to feel all gross and drooly try using a nice quantity of water based lube.
if u have trouble swallowing try using your hand with your mouth to keep it from squirting too close to your throat and gagging u or if its the taste that bothers u use flavored lube and have a glass of water nearby to sip when ur through. if the texture is hard to swallow try mixing it with saliva in your mouth to thin it. I'm really glad u guys r speaking up to help educate us women on how to improve. one question....do u like it when a girl uses her lips to provide suction or when she wraps her lips around her teeth to provide more direct pressure and shield the teeth completely?

i dont know if anyone said this above, but when im giving my boyfriend a blowjob, one thing i found that drives him crazy is, after he has cummed, i keep going without hesitation. though, if your guy is like mine, you may have to hold his hands down. makes it fun though. after a few seconds of doing it, you'll have him saying your name ;)

My guy absolutely loves going down on me and he does it all the time. He says he gets off on it too. But I have the hardest time with how he tastes. I have tried so many times to go down and one time I actually swallowed it...but it was soo awful. I really want to enjoy what I'm doing but I can't get over the taste and it makes me want to throw up. Is there anything I can do?? I even hate for him to kiss me after he has gone down on me because I think I taste so gross! Of course, I have never told him that...he seems to love how I taste. PLEASE tell me how I can make myself enjoy the taste! Everyone says enthusiasm is key but I just can't get myself to like it. Please help!

as far as taste goes I'm not sure. it depends on what exactly bothers you. if its his cum have you tried spitting it out or even finish him with your hand if you can't handle it in your mouth? if its his cock then you may wanna start by showering together to eliminate any bodily tastes, then try something flavored on him like lube or a lickable food like whipped cream or chocolate sauce. don't be afraid to stop and put more on if you need to. Most men love having a girl eat things off of them. its very noble that you are continuing to try to please him orally even though its difficult for you. i'm sure the feelings behind your actions say more to him then the actual act itself. I would talk with him about your desire to please him. lastly there are things that can be changed in a mans diet that can affect the taste of his cum. you may want to look into that further.
Also I have to add that I have finally fully conquered the blow job! I was already doing pretty good and my boyfriend was just so happy that I enjoy giving him head but i felt that I needed to take it up a notch and completely nlow his mind. I've been practicing different stuff on him to see what he REALLY likes . pay close attention to his sounds and body language to see what he loves.we have amazing communication which leads to the best sex either of us has ever had. the last few times I could tell I was really pushing him over the edge (in a good way) and last night after teasing him for awhile and alternating between sex and oral I gave him his two favorite things at once: I sucked on him while letting him watch me pleasure myself. once I got off I whispered "now I wanna get you of baby" and put full attention on him. using my hand and mouth together and making sure to speed up as he climaxed, he had the best orgasm I have ever witnessed. out of breath he then said "hands down, 110%, u give THE best blow jobs ever" and smiled at me adoringly. I was stoked! he has been bragging about me since we met but his friends are getting so jealous now.

as far as taste goes I'm not sure. it depends on what exactly bothers you. if its his cum have you tried spitting it out or even finish him with your hand if you can't handle it in your mouth? if its his cock then you may wanna start by showering together to eliminate any bodily tastes, then try something flavored on him like lube or a lickable food like whipped cream or chocolate sauce. don't be afraid to stop and put more on if you need to. Most men love having a girl eat things off of them. its very noble that you are continuing to try to please him orally even though its difficult for you. i'm sure the feelings behind your actions say more to him then the actual act itself. I would talk with him about your desire to please him. lastly there are things that can be changed in a mans diet that can affect the taste of his cum. you may want to look into that further.
Also I have to add that I have finally fully conquered the blow job! I was already doing pretty good and my boyfriend was just so happy that I enjoy giving him head but i felt that I needed to take it up a notch and completely nlow his mind. I've been practicing different stuff on him to see what he REALLY likes . pay close attention to his sounds and body language to see what he loves.we have amazing communication which leads to the best sex either of us has ever had. the last few times I could tell I was really pushing him over the edge (in a good way) and last night after teasing him for awhile and alternating between sex and oral I gave him his two favorite things at once: I sucked on him while letting him watch me pleasure myself. once I got off I whispered "now I wanna get you of baby" and put full attention on him. using my hand and mouth together and making sure to speed up as he climaxed, he had the best orgasm I have ever witnessed. out of breath he then said "hands down, 110%, u give THE best blow jobs ever" and smiled at me adoringly. I was stoked! he has been bragging about me since we met but his friends are getting so jealous now.

also just a tip....even if u don't give your man head the whole time when he's about to get off during sex try having him pull out and suck on him to get him off. my man LOVES when I take control like this and it allows him not to wear a condom which let's face it... all guys love that. at first I thought it might be gross to try it after he'd been in me but its the same thing he puts in his mouth and I kiss him so what's the big deal right? so going along with my motto of trying anything once I did it and it has now become something i do for him often.

For all of you ladies out there who can't seem to get past the taste- I have a tip for you!!! This will make him taste so good you won't want to stop licking and sucking- and it feels AMAZING for him! Get yourself some strawberry (or whatever you like) flavored poprocks, put a handful in your mouth when you first take him into your mouth- and he will not only taste like a giant lollipop- he will love the feeling of the little candies popping next to his penis. One word of caution....because the candy is so sweet, and cum is rather salty- when he comes it won't taste good- but if you can manage it....swallow all you can and show him how much you LOVE the new and improved candy flavored penis! You can also use mints, toothpaste, etc- all have their own varying effects and are petty good at making his member taste better. Once in a while I will use candy with my guy but most often I just enjoy him the way he his! Another tip about taste...he will taste the most pleasant when he just gets out of the shower before he's had a chance to get all sweaty/oily/dirty. lol- with those poprocks you will make him need to get right back in the shower!

if you want his cum to taste better, get him to drink a glass of pineapple juice 12-24 hours before you swallow =] and if he eats alot of strawberries, that makes it sweeter too :P
..the stuff that makes it smell and taste bad is fish, cheese, dairy..
but lots of fruit is good :)

get on your knees! this the best. we're not making love here so make it as dirty as possible. look up at him with big adoring eyes and make sure he knows you're into it ;)

my bf loves it when i run my fingernails across his balls in circular motions really softly and lightly whilst they are moist with saliva and i am sucking or licking the head of his penis.i love the way it makes him breath.

okay, I happen to have a fairly small mouth... guys seem to like that because it makes them feel huge. and I have a tongue ring that guys have told me specifically deserves to be worshipped. I'm not exactly sure what it is that I do that makes it so great... maybe it's the fact that I will wake a guy up with a little fun, simply because it's one of my favorite things to do. my most recent experience actually involved my girlfriend (I'm bi)... I took a break from going down on him to make out with my girlfriend right in front of his face and it turned him on so much that he actually begged me (through moans, of course) to go back down and finish the job...

where are they guys? lots of girls commenting on what their partner's like, but only guys know for sure what is good. speak up!

My fella goes crazy if I s-l-o-w-l-y take the head out of my mouth til it's resting on my lower lip with my mouth open, whilst giving him sexy eyes. I think it's corny as anything, but whatever floats his boat is fine by me! And swirling the head with my tongue is apparently hot.

Hey, I've only ever given one blowjob, which I was told after that it was terrible (yeah the guy was a dick) so of course I'm reading up on it, I don't have a gag reflex and actually enjoy swallowing so I think I have a lot of potential, and these tips definitely helped a lot...well anyways back to the question at hand, when everyone says suck on the balls and stroke them, what if they are hairy? I mean no way I'm sucking on hairy balls, but is it still okay to stoke them or what? I really don't know the rules on this.

im a girl. but my bf loves it when i make it feel like a vagina. start at the top of his head and slowly push it past ur lips sucking as hard as u can to make it as tight around him as poosible. slowly decend down his shaft still sucking really hard, until u get as far down as u can go. then head back up. remember go slowly and suck so hard ur face is red. idk about other guys but mine shivers and moans a lil when i reach the top and lick his head with my tongue while still sucking.

My girlfriend does a few things I love. Ball licking, also having me bent over doggie style and licking from my asshole to my balls.

Then theres the cock in mouth thing while she bobs shallow but moves her head side to side - like rotating it. Thats awesome - we just learnt that last weekend.

Then this one time all she did was lick on the tip of it for ages, felt great, got unbearable and was a huge cum.

She also sometimes pulls it out of her mouth if I'm watching and rubs it on her face like it were a soft piece of fur - on her cheeks, lips - that speeds up my time to orgasm hugely to watch.

And sometimes for variety a no finesse, loads of saliva, just bob her mouth up and down.

On her knees while I stand and fuck her face.

Wow ... ! I love her!!!

i love rimming guys and sticking fingers up their assholes, but how do i know which guys will like it and which guys dont without jumping straight in?

i've given my fair share of blow jobs recently but my close friend wanted 2 give me tips so i gave him a blow job and he helped me critique my skills. while u r bobbing up and down on his penis grab the base of his dick and go up and down in a twisting motion they love it because every inch of his dick is getting attention. but im struggling with the fact that i hate when my boyfriend looks at me while im doing it so i try and hide my face. how can i get over this??

maybe u should just close your eyes. then u won't know if he's looking at u or not. also having your eyes closed allows u to concentrate better anyways. another tip: if your guys head gets too sensitive during orgasm like mine try holding your mouth open but keep your lips around him and quickly rub up and down while grasping the base with your hand just as he starts to cum.

Hey everyone! I love the helpful comments but i still have a few questions or problems i need to figure out....

1.) I LOVE it when the guy talks dirty... but what do I say??? I want to have him think i enjoy it but i don't want to sound corny or like a porn star!

2.) I’m a little young and inexperienced but sometimes i hook up with guys who have g/f's already so they don't want to like kiss or anything which sucks (no pun intended) so any advice on how to make them kiss me(I’m not confident enough to make the first move)

3.) a lot of the time i find myself giving a blowjob while the guy is driving but i don't like then there isn't any eye contact any ideas to help? Also, any tips on how to make that more fun?

THANK YOU XOXOX

Hey!

I am going out with a guy who is quite a bit more experienced than me. His ex girlfriend and him used to do nothing but have sex for days on end. We haven't been going out for very long, but im sure he really cares about me. To cut a long story short, I was abused as a kid - and we tried having sex teh other day. I absolutely freaked out and feel horrible about it. He's been so good to me.

Anyway, I really want to give him a blowjob - but I'm a complete virgin. Furthest I've gone is kissing. But I really want to make my man feel good. Penises in general really gross me out hah, as childish as that sounds. I'm so nervous it's ridiculous, but I really want to get better at this.

Any tips to get over my nerves?