Sex Tips For Virgins (Part 2)
My Sex Tips for Virgins (Part 1) post that I wrote quite a while back continues to be one of my most highly keyword-searched and trafficked posts. Because of this, I've always felt a little guilty I didn't continue on with the series as I'd originally planned. Obviously a lot of people are looking for help in this area.
Today, I got a concerned comment on that old post from a very sweet girl, and my comment back to her grew to massive post length, so I'm going to post my answer here as a somewhat personally addressed "part two" in the series. Hopefully, as I get less busy, I'll be able to have more organized, generalized follow-ups.
I'd like all readers to keep in mind, however, that though I'm choosing to answer a younger person in this particular post, because she seems to really need some info, this site is in general an adult site, and is not meant for teen readership. So that means, any teen readers of this post, no peeking around elsewhere, or I'm taking your cell phones away for a year! Got it? Good.
Okay. Here's what the commenter wrote:
I'll be very honest with everyone, I'm only 14 & my boyfriend is turning 15 really soon. It isn't that we are 'planning' to have sex but we both can sense it's coming up, we are sort of afraid to move bases, I really don't know what to do it's kinda scary, I'm a virgin and he is too, I'm his first girlfriend and he is my second. My first bf went with one of my friends but i didnt care, but when i found out they are almost 'having' sex I freaked. I mean we all are only 14 and really soon both guys turn 15, I mean, both she & I are very worried. We don't know what to do. I know my bf and I wont do anything wrong, yet, but I know and feel it in my heart he is the one, my true love, but sex is such a difficult topic to talk about, I don't know what to do. I need help, I just want to know when should I have sex with my Bf, when we both are older or at least responsible enough to take care of a baby??? I don't know, I'm confused I love him with all my heart, really i do. But the thing is that I'm lost and I have no idea what to say, all i want is to move base, as in more than just kissing & hugging, i want more. I feel so bad but i love it at the same time, I need help can anyone help???
Viridiana
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